Understanding the Rise of Suicide Among Men in Trinidad and Tobago: Insights and Solutions

Introduction: In recent years, Trinidad and Tobago has witnessed a troubling trend: a significant increase in suicides, particularly among men. According to data from the Ministry of Health, there has been a 25 per cent rise in suicides over the last eight years. Between 2016 and 2019, 371 lives were lost to suicide, averaging 93 suicides per year. Shockingly, between 2020 and 2023, this number rose to 478, averaging 120 suicides annually. These statistics paint a grim picture of the mental health crisis facing our nation. Understanding the Factors: Several factors contribute to the rise of suicide among men in Trinidad and Tobago. One major factor is the stigma surrounding mental health issues, particularly among men. Society often expects men to be strong and resilient, leading many to suffer in silence rather than seek help for their struggles. Additionally, economic challenges, relationship issues, substance abuse, and access to means of self-harm also play significant roles. The Role of Men of Purpose: Men of Purpose, led by R. Irvin Paddier, recognizes the urgent need to address mental health issues and combat the rising suicide rates among men in Trinidad and Tobago. Our organization is dedicated to empowering men to overcome obstacles and live fulfilling lives. We understand that mental health is a crucial aspect of overall well-being, and we are committed to providing support and resources to those in need. What Men of Purpose is Doing: 1. Awareness Campaigns: Men of Purpose conducts awareness campaigns to educate the community about mental health issues and reduce the stigma surrounding seeking help. 2. Support Groups: We offer support groups where men can share their experiences in a safe and non-judgmental environment. These groups provide a sense of community and belonging, reducing feelings of isolation. 3. Counseling and Coaching: Through our partnership with Irvin Life Coach, we offer counseling and coaching services to help men navigate their mental health challenges. Our goal is to equip men with the tools and strategies they need to cope with stress, anxiety, and depression effectively. 4. Crisis Intervention: In collaboration with mental health professionals, Men of Purpose provides crisis intervention services to individuals in acute distress. We aim to intervene early and provide immediate support to prevent tragic outcomes. Conclusion: The rise of suicide among men in Trinidad and Tobago is a complex issue that demands urgent attention and action. By addressing the underlying factors contributing to this trend and providing comprehensive support and resources, we can work together to prevent further loss of life and promote mental well-being in our community. If you or someone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts, don't hesitate to reach out for help. Contact Irvin Life Coach at irvinlifecoach@gmail.com or WhatsApp 868-376-4954. Remember, you are not alone, and help is available.

What God says…. about the Family Institution

Trinidad and Tobago’s family structure is under tremendous pressure. April 12th is judgment day on whether the buggery law would stay or be repealed.

Who has the final say about  the family? God does!

The Church of Trinidad and Tobago must now look at what God allows. When God allows something to happen its either for blessing or for judgment.

God allows things t be shaken to reveal His unshakable Kingdom. Hebrews 12:25 -29;  “25 See that you do not refuse him who is speaking. For if they did not escape when they refused him who warned them on earth, much less will we escape if we reject Him who warns from heaven. 26 At that time His voice shook the earth, but now He has promised, “Yet once more I will shake not only the earth but also the heavens.” 27 This phrase, “Yet once more,” indicates the removal of things that are shaken—that is, things that have been made—in order that the things that cannot be shaken may remain.28 Therefore let us be grateful for receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, and thus let us offer to God acceptable worship, with reverence and awe, 29 for our God is a consuming fire.”

The Church of Trinidad and Tobago is in a divided and backslidden state. How can we the Church, the Bride of Jesus Christ expect the nation to be peaceful when we are in open fights with each other.

The role of the Church is to represent the Kingdom of God to our families, community, city, our nation and the world. To be salt and light.

Salt and Light

13 “You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot.

14 “You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. 15 Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. 16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify our  Father in heaven -Mattew 5:13-16.

The World’s Agenda 

The world’s agenda that is being pushed by television, social media, movies, music etc is a homosexual agenda that is not based on truth. The reason alot of church goers are confused is because they have bought into what the media is saying and not what the Lord God said.

When you bind a man and a woman in stable relationships their family is better and society is better. In the history of the world there has never been a successful “gay nation”.

The society today is confusing the phrase love, because there argument is “if God loves us why should anybody tell them same sex family is wrong?”

When you love a person biblically you do what’s best for that person. I love you but I have to agree with what God has to say about love.

It’s very disheartening to see comments that the Church is homophobic because the Church agrees with what God has to say about marriage.

God created marriage very early in the history of mankind. Marriage is between one man and one female, and who are we to attempt to redefine that. When the family is in chaos the nation is in chaos. God created the family not just for marriage but also for procreation.

Whether you thinks its right and I think its wrong is irrelevant. God has already clearly defined the institution of family.

The institution of family is under attack. And there are alot of church goers that says they are just going to love people and not hurt their feelings,  out of the fear of being called a bigot or homophobic.

We should minister in love but not endorsing what they are doing. Remember its not love that sets people free it truth!

 

 

Family Restoration

Men of Purpose encourages you and your family to come along, to taste and see how gracious the Lord is. There is never a sickness that Jesus cannot heal, it doesn’t matter how advanced the illness may be, God is willing and more than able to shine a light on even the most darkest situations in our lives.

On Sunday May 28th 5pm Men of Purpose would be hosting our first service for the entire family theme ”Family Restoration” . Venue Christ Restoration Ministries 33B Todd Street San Fernando.

Our Keynote Speaker: Pastor R.Irvin Paddier – President/Founder of Men of Purpose.

Beloved, you could have tried everything out there to get healed but haven’t had the results you’ve expected and things seem to have gotten worse. If you’re sick and tired of being sick and tired! Go to the source, Jesus desires above all things that you prosper and be in health, He wants to save you, deliver you and heal you. He wants a relationship with His Children, His family.

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Family Restoration

Deliverance is so Great. On a daily basis, we receive so many desperate cries for help from people who are bound and tormented by evil spirits like Spiritual Husbands and Wives and lust demons and have seen some amazing deliverances take place in Jesus name as families, marriages are restored and hindrances are broken off of people’s lives.

One night in the presences of the Lord can change your life. Weeping may endure for a night but your joy or breakthrough may cometh at this  Family Restoration service. Step out of your comfort boat and walk by faith and not by sight on the stormy waters and reach out for yourself and your family.

Who should attend the Family Restoration Service?

Anyone desiring freedom from physical and spiritual attacks.

  • generational family curses,
  • habitual personal sins,
  • traumatic events,
  • unforgiveness towards others, self or God,
  • negative thought patterns, and
  • the occult and new age practices
  • emotional, physical, spiritual wounds.

Hope to see you there.